This week we read a short story by James Joyce called "The Dead".
The story focuses on a young man named Gabriel who attends a party held by his aunts and cousin. Gabriel arrives with his wife Gretta. While one of the servants, Lily, takes his coat he asks her a rather personal question regarding her love life which earns him an irritated and snappy response. Gabriel is uncomfortable by this but instead of apologizing or explaining, he just leaves the conversation and then explains how his education is what had made him unable to relate to servants. Almost everything seems to irritate Gabriel, even his aunt teasing him about his love for galoshes. Later, Gabriel finds himself dancing with Miss Ivors, a lover of all things Irish, which Gabriel happens to be. They enter into a conversation about Ireland and Miss Ivors tells Gabriel a place he should visit that celebrates Irish culture. Gabriel doesn't know how to respond to Miss Ivors question and conversation so she calls him out on his lack of interest in his country. Gabriel, frustrated by this, blurts out that he is sick of his country. Before dinner, Gabriel gives a wonderful speech about hospitality, living in the moment, enjoying all that life has to offer and not lingering on the past but really loving the present. Everyone enjoys it. After dinner, Gabriel realizes that Gretta is transfixed by a song that Mr. Bartell D’Arcy is singing. This makes Gabriel recall their courtship and he feels a strong sense of love for her in that moment. This is not matched by Gretta though, as she is despondent and detached the rest of the night. Gabriel is, of course, frustrated by this, and after questioning her about her mood she tells him that she was transfixed by the song because it was one that an old lover of hers, Michael Fury once sang to her. He died from the cold while waiting outside her window.
That's the gist of the whole story and I believe it is a beautiful one with a great message.
Gabriel realizes something profound at the end of this story. That although he had a wonderful education, gave great inspiring speeches, and had a beautiful wife, he was lacking something so important to fulfillment in life: passion. Gabriel had no passion for his life and instead was bothered by most things. Upon hearing the story of Michael Fury, he realized that although Michael had died young he had lived such a greater life than Gabriel had even the chance to.
He realized that he was not passionate about people, thus the exchange with Lily. He didn't really care what she had to say and was therefore pretty rude to her.
He wasn't passionate about his country, he only spoke of it because he knew he aught to, thus the exchange with Miss Avis.
He wasn't even very passionate about his own wife, Gretta, thus the sad ending in which he realized that she was passionate towards a lover who had so much love for her that he had died.
I think that this story is a universal and relatable one. I think we all know people like Gabriel who are just living the motions in their life and who are going to die with very little to look back on. Living your life this way is an easy way to not be hurt, but a sad way to live.
I recommend everyone read this story.
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